The life, work, and dough
So I’m feeling a bit more optimistic since my last blog. I was just thinking last night that even though things are frustrating sometimes…I will no doubt look back on this experience and smile. The good times that I have had here have far outweighed the bad times. In reality, any time that has been bad turned out helping me in the end.
About work: I’m starting to get the hang of it, but new challenges present themselves everyday. For example, because of the lack of organization here, yesterday, I went into one of my classes and began to teach a lesson that I was prepared for…then the co-teacher said, “Oh, it is supposed to be this page.” So, I had to think FAST! That is just one of many times that has happened to me…but one thing is for sure…it has definitely taught me how to think quickly on my feet under pressure. At the rate I’m going, by the time I get home and have a job interview….there is no question that would stump me. I truly feel like after this year of teaching, I will be able to deal with any situation at any job. Just making order out of chaos…
I just got done teaching 3 kindy classes in a row…the last one was the class that I compained about in a previous blog….they are more bareable now, but they were so hyper today! I just took their energy and threw it into games and songs…I figured since they were so wild, they have to get it out of their system…they don’t just sit and listen to me read!!!
I was talking to my friend from home last night and he said that my voice sounds different. That could have something to do with yelling and speaking loudly everyday. I’ve tried not doing that…well it never works…I just hope that it won’t damage my voice permenantly. I’ve tried singing, and I can still sing but I can’t hit anymore high notes!
As for life…the best part of my life here are the friends I have made. I will post a slideshow soon with some pictures, but mainly I hang out with my friend Colleen. I have never had so much fun with one person before in my life. She is such a blast to hang out with and she always makes me laugh so hard that my stomach hurts! It never fails…whenever we go out she does something that sets me off laughing hysterically. She is the kind of friend that I always dreamed of having, but just never found. Yes, I have really great friends back home (just a handful that I consider life-long) but she feels like a sister to me! Anyway, besides her I have met more friends who are amazing as well. I think I will make more loyal friends here in one year than what I could make back home in 10! The attitude is so different in America…full of egos and selfishness, and people who are afraid of working for a solid friendship that will never come easy. Here, we are all in it together, teaching, living in a foreign land with a language barrier, so we definitely have more solid friendships than I could ever have in America. It is a nice thing to have and helps me feel less lonely because I’m not with my family.
The dough-I picked up a second job, which I won’t say much about since it is one of those “technically illegal things” but every foreigner does it. But anyway, I’m picking up a lot of extra cash, and working on moving into a bigger place. I will not ever have to worry about money over here, and should be able to save a lot by the time I get back home. I would like to use that money to travel around the world on my way home.
Well, I’m going to try and post some pics a little later today so check back soon!
Sheilah said,
October 2, 2007 at 1:53 pm
So glad to hear that it’s all “coming around” for you. It just takes time and things always work out. Life is just like that, Ashley……it will always be a process of “adjusting” to new things, different things, unwelcome things and enjoying fun things! Just stay close to God and He will keep you on the right path. You’re right about making friends in similar life circumstances……..that is what I miss most about the military. We made so many wonderful friends and while living in that lifestyle/culture, everyone is more open, honest and giving. Seems that a lot of the barriers that people put up in the “civilian” world are just non-existent in the military life. I think that’s why I miss it a little. But life will always be about changes and we have to roll with them and make the most of what our life brings at the moment we’re currently living in. I think J3 will find this out too, when he leaves the military. I love you, Mom
Aunt Susan said,
October 2, 2007 at 7:54 pm
Ok Ashley come clean w/ this 2nd job thing…lol.lol.lol…your note sounded much better I’m very glad
Have fun and stay safe love you
Aunt SUSAN
Carla said,
October 4, 2007 at 2:43 pm
ummm… “technically illegal”… never sounds good!
sgtmajh said,
October 5, 2007 at 4:44 pm
Keep up the positive attitude honey. You are doing a great job and we are very proud of you. Love you!
Dad
Aunt Susan said,
October 10, 2007 at 12:14 pm
Hi Ashley, I just wanted to say Hi and hope all is going great….Luv Ya